Are you Sick and Disgusted of feeling like a "Loser" with Women? Tired of your Life? Appalled by your Appearance? Frustrated with Nowhere to Turn? What the HELL are the Answers???? 


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The purpose of this site is to help men improve the quality of their lives with women and dating. The information and collection of articles are geared to 3 specific categories with the mindset that you have to have "all" of them handled before you can attract and keep your "Total 10". They are broken down into the following parts :

1-Inner Game : The way you think and your inner dialogue. Building up confidence and your internal assets so you can approach life in more productive ways. What goes on inside of us is a direct reflection of what happens on the outside of us.

2-Dating and Techniques : The actual bread and butter. Things to do and skills to learn in order for better success with women and attraction. For most men, none of this comes natural and its a skill you must learn just like anything else in life.

3-Health and Fitness: Staying sharp physically is just as important as staying sharp mentally. Most people are very lazy at exercise, eating right and appearance and have no idea how to develop themselves into a physically appealing and healthy individual.

Read all my articles here from there, browse by category from the right sidebar.



This site will help you overcome blocks and weed out those limiting beliefs that you may currently have stuck inside. Its always difficult overcoming a break up or never having much success with women and dating in the first place. Your self esteem and confidence can take a major hit. It takes a lot of courage to face the "lions den" at times and it indeed can be scary. But it doesn't have to be and can be quite fun in the process the better you get.

Anything worthwhile is not gonna come easy in life and getting better with women is no different. Some men have a much easier time and are referred to as "naturals", but most men do not fit in this category and the skills and mindset must be learned.

I don't care where you live and what type of background you have, every guy out there can learn to get better with the opposite sex. This site is meant to serve as a reference or a guide as to what is possible through changing your thought patterns and behavior. It's a friendly place so negativity is not tolerated. Discussions are encouraged, comments are welcomed, and learning is the purpose. If you disagree with something tell me, if you have something positive to add EMAIL ME, if you have a new concept or something I am missing that you wanna add - teach me. This site is also for entertainment and so please have tons of fun with it.

Though mainly written for men, women are welcome to take anything from this and contribute as well because certain things are applied to both men and women in the real world. Plus most women have no clue what is actually inside a man's head either and can learn a great deal from the male perspective. Plus ladies, we all wanna hear from you and your thoughts...good or bad. Everyone is welcome.



The main themes of this site are :

Improving your Dating Life : Getting better with women and attraction. Techniques and skills leading to better success with women of any age. Becoming an Alpha male and champion among men. Learning leadership and being a truly "high status" man.

Health & Fitness : Living a healthy life so you will not only look better but feel better. Learning to eat right and exercise everyday.

Inspiration : Last but not least; being inspired to take your life to the next level and raise your standards permanently.

Truth : Accept reality and rid yourself of falsehood and denial.

Love : Improve your ability to connect with yourself and others.

Power : Build your motivation and discipline to create the life you desire.

Growth : Grow in all areas of your life.

Authority : Take Command of your life and learn to make clear decisions.

Courage : Summon the inner strength to take action in spite of fear.

Persistence : The ability to endure in the face of long odds, to do the right thing even though you don't feel like it sometimes.

Intelligence : Live authentically, express your genuine creativity, and live by your own purpose.

Your Purpose : Discovering your life purpose and living by it everyday.

*Personal development, getting better with Women & Dating, and Exercising requires hard hard work. It takes time, consistency, and patience. If your only here looking for shallow quick fixes and you aren't interested in real, lasting change, this isn't the right place for you. Go heavy or go home.                           


How to use this site :

1-Start off by booking marking this page and come back to it daily. I have new articles almost everyday and something new to talk about.

2-Check out my Articles Section and look through them listed by month and year in the Archives menu. You can also select the Category that you are looking for and all the articles are listed in the Recent Articles in the side bar section to the right of the site.

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